You thought you were building a family. Right now it feels like you’re losing one.
Every week is another battle. The fights come out of nowhere.
The kids push back.
Your partner shuts down.
Every decision feels loaded and exhausting.
You’re not tired from parenting, you’re tired from trying to keep the whole thing from collapsing.
The love is still there, but it’s buried under resentment, silence, and blow-ups.
And the question you’re too scared to say out loud keeps circling:
“What if this doesn’t work?”
What it feels like right now…
You try to plan a simple weekend, but every little thing becomes another argument.
Your kids push back on house rules.
Your partner feels like an outsider.
You dread transitions more than you look forward to family time.
One minute you’re biting your tongue to keep the peace.
The next minute you’re snapping over something tiny because you can’t hold it in anymore.
When the dust settles, you’re left wondering:
👉 Is this just blended family life?
👉 Or are we already slipping into something we won’t come back from?
Why Families Get Stuck Here
Blending isn't hard because you're bad at it.
It's hard because the system itself is stacked against you.
You're not just joining two people. You're merging households, parenting styles, histories, and loyalties that were never designed to fit neatly together.
Every decision, from discipline to dinner, has extra layers. Ex-partners. Kids' resistance. Competing rules. Old wounds.
The step-parent role has no clear structure. Too involved and you're overstepping. Step back and you're not doing enough.
The bio-parent carries guilt so heavy it warps every choice. Protect the kids, or protect the relationship?
This isn't happening because you're not cut out for it.
It's happening because no one ever gave blended families a real framework for how to thrive in the chaos.
Imagine If…
The chaos didn't control every decision.
You had a clear plan that steadied both the kids and your relationship.
Family time felt calmer, even when emotions were high.
Conversations actually brought you closer instead of pushing you apart.
Rules were simple, consistent, and didn't spark constant fights.
The step-parent role had boundaries that made sense. No more walking on eggshells.
And the guilt stopped running the show because you finally knew how to protect your kids and your partnership at the same time.
Instead of living in survival mode, you could breathe again. Stronger together. Leading with clarity. Building the family you set out to create.
👉 That's what The BLND3D Blueprint™ gives you. Because time won't fix it. And love alone won't save it.
The BLND3D H.O.M.E. Method™: Your Roadmap to a Calm, Connected Home
The BLND3D Blueprint™ isn't random advice stitched together. It's a step-by-step system built on the The BLND3D H.O.M.E. Method™.
Four phases. One clear path. Real results.
PHASE 1: HONESTY
"See it clearly."
Gain raw awareness of who you are, how you show up, and what's really going on in your blended dynamic.
What you'll work through:
Personal audits, stress patterns, burnout signals, and where your parenting styles clash.
PHASE 2: OWNERSHIP
"Take responsibility."
Get aligned with yourself and your partner. Define roles, values, and boundaries that actually work.
What you'll work through:
Couple reconnection, communication tools, step-parent clarity, leadership alignment, and building your shared family vision.
PHASE 3: MOMENTUM
"Make it work."
Put your insights into action with systems, routines, and emotional tools that actually shift your family life.
What you'll work through:
Household structure, emotional regulation, and raising kids who can handle the complexity of blended life.
PHASE 4: ECOSYSTEM
"Live it long term."
You now have the vision, plan, systems, and structure to sustain a calm, connected home.
What you'll work through:
Repair after rupture, sustaining progress under pressure, and building your personalised family playbook.
THE BLND3D BLUEPRINT™ MEMBERSHIP ROADMAP
What You’ll Walk Away With
A clear picture of what's actually going on. Instead of feeling like everything's your fault.
The language to talk about resentment, guilt, and burnout without it turning into a fight.
Parenting differences that don't blow up your weekends.
Roles, rules, routines, and rituals that stop constant bickering over every little thing.
Scripts for the moments that usually leave you tongue-tied. Ex drama. Kid meltdowns. Partner clashes.
Repair rituals that bring you back together after conflict instead of letting distance harden.
Kids who feel safer and more secure because you're showing up steady, not reactive.
A partner who finally feels included and part of the family.
The confidence that you're not just winging it anymore.
This isn't a course you buy and never open.
When you join The BLND3D Blueprint™, you get real access to the people who built it. Us.
Here's what that looks like:
Submit your questions directly. Ask anything. Get answers in the community or privately via DM. No more guessing. No more waiting weeks for a therapy appointment just to explain your family setup again.
Monthly live group calls. Each month, we teach on a topic that matters most to you. Submit your questions and we'll use them to shape the session. Real issues. Real teaching. Built around what you're actually facing.
A community of people who get it. You were never meant to do this life alone. Connect with other blended couples who understand the chaos. Share wins. Get support. Build real relationships with people navigating the same reality.
We’re in this together.
Why Learn From Us?
We're not "experts" because we read the books.
We're experts because we live this every day.
We've been a blended family for over five years.
Five kids.
Three households. Two exes. Endless handovers, sports weekends, and logistics that could break the strongest couple.
We've had the guilt. The burnout. The fights that left us wondering if any of this was worth it.
Before this, we were police officers. We saw families at their absolute best and their absolute worst. We learned what keeps them together and what tears them apart.
We know what it's like to lie awake wondering if this will ever feel normal. To read all the books, listen to all the podcasts, sit through therapy, and still walk back into the same chaos at home.
None of it gave us the tools we actually needed.
Let's talk about what therapy actually costs.
One 50-minute session with a family therapist= $260–$500+
And that's just the first session. The one where you spend half the time explaining that yes, you have an ex, yes, there are kids from both sides, no, they don't live here full time, and yes, the ex still causes drama.
Then you have to book the next session. Wait another week or two. Repeat.
After 4–6 sessions, you've spent $1,000–$3,000. And you might still be explaining the family dynamic.
Here's what you get with The BLND3D Blueprint™:
THE BLND3D BLUEPRINT™ — FULL COURSE ACCESS — $249 USD
All four phases. Every module. Every script. Every ritual. Every system.
Self-paced. Short videos. Low-barrier tools. 10-minute wins. Built for burnt-out people.
3 MONTHS OF COMMUNITY ACCESS Included with your purchase. No extra charge.
Inside the community, you get:
● Direct access to Brit & Josh. Submit questions. Get real answers.
● Monthly live group calls.
● A private community of blended families who get it. No judgement. Just people in the same trenches.
● Exclusive resources, new modules, and updates.
After 3 months, stay connected for just $49/month.
Continued access to the community. Support. New content. Monthly calls. Cancel anytime.
| Therapy Session | The BLND3D Blueprint™ | |
|---|---|---|
| Cost | $500+ initial appointment | $249 one-time |
| Time explaining your dynamic | Half the session | Never. We already get it. |
| Access to coaches | Once a week (if you can book in) |
5 days per week. DM or community. |
| Community support | None | Included for 3 months |
| Practical tools & scripts | Maybe, eventually | Immediate. Built in. |
| Ongoing access | More sessions at $260+ each | $49/month from month 4 |
THE BLND3D BLUEPRINT™ is less than one session with a senior family therapist.
And you get a full system, direct access to us, and a community who actually understands what you're dealing with.
This Is For You If…
You're in the early stages of blending and it feels like constant survival mode.
Or you've been blended a while, but the house still runs on conflict, exhaustion, and walking on eggshells.
You love your partner, but the pressure of kids, exes, and daily chaos is starting to swallow your relationship.
You're sick of second-guessing every decision. Torn between protecting your kids and keeping your partner close.
Your partner feels like an outsider and you don't know how to change it.
You're exhausted from holding it all together. Silently burning out while no one notices.
You've tried therapy, books, podcasts. But nothing gave you the actual tools you need for this reality.
You don't just want to "get through." You want your family to feel like a real team.
A clear picture of what’s actually going on instead of feeling like everything’s
your fault.
You’re in your first 12–18 months of blending and it feels like constant
survival mode.
Or you’ve been blended a while, but the house still runs on conflict, exhaustion, and walking on eggshells.
You love your partner, but the pressure of kids, exes, and daily chaos is starting to swallow your relationship.
You’re sick of second-guessing every decision — torn between protecting your kids and keeping your partner close.
Your partner feels like an outsider and you don’t know how to change it.
You’re exhausted from holding it all together, silently burning out while no one notices.
You’ve tried therapy, books, podcasts — but nothing gave you the actual tools you need for this reality.
You don’t just want to “get through.” You want your family to feel like a real team.
Blended doesn’t mean broken.
But without a plan, it can break you.
👉 The BLND3D Blueprint™ is that plan.
Why Learn From Us?
We’re not “experts” because we read the books.
We’re experts because we live this everyday.
We’ve been a blended family for over five years — five kids, three households, two exes, endless handovers, sports weekends, and logistics that could break the strongest couple.
We’ve had the guilt, the burnout, the fights that left us wondering if any of this was worth it.
Before this, we were police officers. We saw families at their absolute best and their absolute worst. We learned what keeps them together and what tears them apart.
We know what it’s like to lie awake wondering if this will ever feel normal. To read all the books, listen to all the podcasts, sit through therapy and still walk back into the same chaos at home. None of it gave us the tools we actually needed.
We're not "experts" because we read
the books.
We're experts because we live this
every day.
We've been a blended family for over five years. Five kids.
Three households. Two exes. Endless handovers, sports weekends, and logistics that could break the strongest couple.
We've had the guilt. The burnout. The fights that left us wondering if any of this was worth it.
Before this, we were police officers. We saw families at their absolute best and their absolute worst. We learned what keeps them together and what tears them apart.
We know what it's like to lie awake wondering if this will ever feel normal. To read all the books, listen to all the podcasts, sit through therapy, and still walk back into the same chaos at home.
None of it gave us the tools we actually needed.
That's why we built The BLND3D Blueprint™. Because families like ours deserve real support. Not just more generic advice that doesn't fit our reality.
The Investment
Let’s be real.
If you tried to figure this out in therapy, you’d spend thousands and half of the time would be wasted just explaining your family setup before you even got to the tools.
If you tried to wing it, you’d spend years in trial and error, burning out your relationship
in the process.
That cost is way higher than money.
We built The BLND3D Blueprint™ to cut through all of that.
Straight to the point, practical tools you can actually use in the middle of the chaos.
You’ll get the full Blueprint — every phase, every script, every ritual, every system — for less than the cost of one therapy session.
Let’s be real.
If you tried to figure this out in therapy, you’d spend thousands and half of the time would be wasted just explaining your family setup before you even got to
the tools.
If you tried to wing it, you’d spend years in trial and error, burning out your relationship in the process.
That cost is way higher than money.
We built The BLND3D Blueprint™ to cut through all of that.
Straight to the point, practical tools you can actually use in the middle of
the chaos.
You’ll get the full Blueprint — every phase, every script, every ritual, every system — for less than the cost of one
therapy session.
👉 $1997 Yours today for $149.
Not because it isn’t worth more.
But because every blended family deserves a plan that actually works.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long do I have access to the course?
You have lifetime access to The BLND3D Blueprint™ course materials. The modules, worksheets, scripts, and tools are yours to keep and revisit whenever you need them.
What's included in the 3 months of community access?
Your first 3 months of community access are included with your $249 purchase. Inside the community, you get direct access to Brit & Josh (submit questions, get answers via DM or in the group), monthly live group calls, exclusive resources and new content, and connection with other blended families navigating the same challenges.
What happens after 3 months?
After your first 3 months, you can choose to continue your community membership for $49/month. This keeps you connected to Brit & Josh, the monthly calls, new modules and resources, and the community. No lock-in. Cancel anytime.
Can I just buy the course without the community?
The course comes bundled with 3 months of community access. We've built it this way because support matters. The tools work better when you're not doing it alone. After 3 months, the ongoing membership is optional.
Is this therapy?
No. We're not therapists. We're coaches and a real blended couple who've lived this. The Blueprint gives you practical tools, frameworks, and support. If you need trauma work or mental health treatment, we recommend working with a professional alongside this program.
What if my partner doesn't want to do it with me?
That's common. You can still work through the course on your own and start applying what you learn. Many of our tools are designed for you to lead by example. But the best results come when both partners engage.
Is this just for stepmums?
No. The Blueprint is built for blended couples. Bio-parents, step-parents, blended dads, blended mums. If you're in a blended family and you're struggling, this is for you.
What if I've already tried therapy or other courses?
Most therapy isn't built for blended families. You spend half the session explaining your setup. And most courses are too generic. The BLND3D Blueprint™ is built specifically for the chaos of blended life. By people who've lived it.
How is the course delivered?
The course is hosted on our platform. You'll get instant access after purchase. Modules are short, self-paced, and designed for busy, burnt-out people. No hour-long videos. Just what you need, when you need it.
What if I have questions while going through the course?
That's what the community is for. Submit your questions directly to Brit & Josh. Get answers in the group or via private DM. You're not left figuring it out alone.
Is there a refund policy?
Due to the digital nature of the course and immediate access to all materials, we do not offer refunds. We encourage you to read through this page carefully and make sure this feels right for you before joining.
You don't have to keep surviving.
You can start leading.
The BLND3D Blueprint™ gives you the tools, the support, and the community to build a calm, connected home.