After everything, you finally
found the right person...
But your kids aren’t making it easy.
After everything, you finally found the right person.
But your kids aren’t making it easy.
Your kids are suddenly acting out.
Dinner turns cold because your teen won’t come out of their room.
Push them too hard, you risk their trust.
Protect them too much, you risk your partner.
Every choice feels like the wrong one.
You’re stuck in the crossfire — trying to protect your kids without losing the love you fought so hard to find.
This is resistance.
And if you don’t know how to lead through it, it will grind your family down.
Why Families Get Stuck Here
Resistance shows up in ways that leave you second-guessing yourself every day:
Your child pulls away, acts out, or flat-out rejects your partner.
Your teen ignores them, throws out comments that sting, or refuses to join family time.
Your partner is trying their best, but doesn’t know how to show up without overstepping.
You’re caught in the middle — guilty if you push your kids, guilty if you don’t.
Nights end in tension. Weekends feel like walking on eggshells.
And underneath all of it?
The fear you don’t want to say out loud:
👉 “What if I lose my kids’ trust?”
👉 “What if I lose my partner?”
👉 “What if this whole thing falls apart and I’m the reason?”
Most blended families don’t crumble because of a lack of love.
They crumble here — in the resistance. When parents freeze, avoid the hard moments, or wait for kids to magically be “ready.”
Imagine if…
Your child still had big feelings, but you knew exactly what they were really asking for underneath the pushback.
You had the words to calm resistance without begging for approval or blowing up into fights.
Your partner finally knew how to show up — steady, consistent, and included — without feeling like an outsider.
You could protect your kids’ trust and your relationship at the same time.
Family dinners, weekends, and handovers stopped feeling like battlefields, and started feeling like steady ground again.
👉 That’s what Leading Through Resistance™ gives you — the tools to stop second-guessing and start leading with clarity.
What’s Inside
Leading Through Resistance ™
The Workshop (Video Training)
You’ll learn:
Why resistance shows up (and why it’s not the end of your family).
How to decode your child’s pushback so you stop panicking every time they act out.
The Voice vs Veto Rule — how to give your kids a voice without handing them control of your relationship.
How to stop parenting from guilt or fear, and step into the steady leader your kids actually need.
The Kids Resistance Toolkit (Workbook)
Your playbook for the messiest moments of resistance.
Inside you’ll find:
16 Most Common Resistance Scenarios blended families face (and how to deal with them)
Word-for-word scripts for both bio-parents and step-parents so you’re never left guessing what to say.
Rituals and routines that bring calm back into bedtimes, meals, and transitions.
Quick wins you can use tonight to ease tension and start building trust.
What You’ll Walk Away With
A plan for resistance — no more walking on eggshells or hoping it sorts itself out.
The exact words to use in the hardest moments.
Tools and rituals that calm chaos — bedtimes, dinners, handovers, and weekends that don’t feel like warzones.
A stronger bond with your kids — they’ll know you’re still theirs, even as life changes.
A partner who finally knows how to show up — steady, included, and part of the family.
Confidence to lead — moving forward without guilt, without begging for approval, and without losing yourself.
Why Learn From Us?
We’re not here because we read a book. We’re here because we’ve lived this, and we’re still living it.
We’ve been a blended family for more than five years, raising five kids across three households.
We’ve had the meltdowns at handovers. The ignoring when they’re with the other parent. The awkward Mother’s and Father’s Days. The lack of recognition. The eye rolls and dirty looks. The “I’ll just ask Daddy then” and “I wish we had a normal family” comments.
But we’ve also had the wins — kids who now see each other as real siblings, who feel safe confiding in their step-parent, who give unprovoked cuddles and say “I love you.”
Before this, we were police officers. We’ve seen families at their very best and their absolute worst. That gave us a front-row seat to what keeps families together — and what tears them apart.
So when we tell you this is possible, we know from experience.
If you went to therapy every week for the next six months, you’d spend thousands.
And most of it would be spent just explaining your family situation before you even got to the tools.
We built Leading Through Resistance™ to cut straight to what actually matters:
To the point, proven strategies, and ready-to-use scripts that meet you in the chaos you’re living right now.
You’ll get:
The full Leading Through Resistance Workshop (video training)
The Kids Resistance Toolkit — with 16 Most Common Resistance Scenarios (and how to deal with them)
Your Investment
This method used to be part of
a $1997 coaching program.
Yours today for just
$49
Your This is for you if...
You feel stuck in the middle...torn between protecting your kids and holding onto your partner.
Your child pushes back, shuts down, or acts out whenever your partner’s around.
Your partner feels like an outsider and you don’t know how to fix it.
You’re tired of walking on eggshells and second-guessing every move.
You want scripts, tools, and leadership strategies that actually work in real life
Resistance isn’t a phase the
kids will just “grow out of.”
Ignore it, and it hardens into distance, resentment, and breakdown.
Lead through it, and it becomes the very thing that forges trust, safety, and connection.
Your kids don’t need you to tiptoe.
Your partner doesn’t need you to choose sides.
They both need you to lead.
That’s what Leading Through Resistance™ gives you — the tools to protect your children, keep your relationship strong, and guide your family through one of the hardest stages of blending.
Resistance isn’t a phase the kids will just “grow out of.”
Ignore it, and it hardens into distance, resentment, and breakdown.
Lead through it, and it becomes the very thing that forges trust, safety, and connection.
Your kids don’t need you to tiptoe.
Your partner doesn’t need you to choose sides.
They both need you to lead.
That’s what Leading Through Resistance™ gives you — the tools to protect your children, keep your relationship strong, and guide your family through one of the hardest stages of blending.
Frequently Asked Questions
My child is a teenager. Will this still work?
Yes. In fact, this is especially for parents of teens.
Teen resistance looks different — more silence, sarcasm, and shut doors — but underneath it’s still fear and uncertainty.
The tools you’ll learn work across ages because they focus on connection first, correction second.
You’ll learn to read what’s really going on beneath the behaviour and respond in a way that rebuilds trust instead of breaking it.
What if my partner isn’t on board with this approach?
That’s okay. You don’t need both parents to start leading differently.
When one person changes the way they show up, the whole family dynamic starts to shift.
You’ll get practical tools and scripts you can use solo — and often, once your partner sees the results, they naturally come on board.
How quickly can I expect to see results?
Most families feel a shift within the first week.
Not because the resistance disappears overnight — but because you stop reacting to it.
That calm, consistent energy changes everything.
From there, it’s about applying the tools daily. The more you use them, the faster the trust and stability build back up.
Is this a one-time payment or a subscription?
It’s a one-time payment of $49 USD.
You get lifetime access to the full workshop and toolkit — no expiry, no hidden fees, no subscriptions.
You can revisit the content anytime, especially when new stages of resistance show up.
Do I need to be in crisis for this to help?
Not at all.
This course is built for both prevention and repair.
If things are tense, it will give you a roadmap back to calm.
If things are currently okay, it will help you stay steady when the next wave hits.
Is this therapy?
No.
We’re not therapists — we’re a real blended couple who’s lived this and built tools that work in everyday family life.
You won’t get clinical theory; you’ll get straight-talk, scripts, and strategies that meet you in the chaos you’re living right now.
Can I do this if I’m a step-parent, not the bio parent?
Absolutely.
This course is designed for both bio-parents and step-parents.
You’ll learn how to find your lane, protect trust, and lead with influence instead of control — even if your role feels unclear right now.
What if I change my mind — do you offer refunds?
Because Leading Through Resistance™ is a digital product with instant access, all sales are final.