You only get one shot at blending families.
Don’t screw it up.
60–70% of blended families don’t make it past the first 5 years.
And the truth is… Most blended families don’t “fail” because of a lack of love. They fail because parents rushed, ignored warning signs, or skipped the hard conversations.
If you think blending families is just “the next step” of dating, you’re
kidding yourself.
This isn’t just a casual milestone to tick off the list. It’s not moving your partner’s toothbrush into your bathroom.
It’s deciding to combine your kids, your routines, and your lives under one roof. That’s the moment you’re no longer just dating, you’re building a blended family.
It’s one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make.
If you treat it lightly, you’re setting your family up to break before it even begins.
Before You Blend™ is the reality check every single-parent needs before moving in, introducing kids, or building a life with someone new.
You only get one shot at blending families.
Don’t screw it up.
60–70% of blended families don’t make it past the first 5 years.
And the truth is… Most blended families don’t “fail” because of a lack of love. They fail because parents rushed, ignored warning signs, or skipped the hard conversations.
If you think blending families is just “the next step” of dating, you’re kidding yourself.
This isn’t just a casual milestone to tick off the list. It’s not moving your partner’s toothbrush into your bathroom.
It’s deciding to combine your kids, your routines, and your lives under one roof. That’s the moment you’re no longer just dating, you’re building a blended family.
It’s one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make.
If you treat it lightly, you’re setting your family up to break before it even begins.
Before You Blend™ is the reality check every single parent needs before moving in, introducing kids, or building a life with someone new.
The Stages of Becoming a Blended Family
Dating + Kids Meet
A parent introduces their kids to a new partner.
The kids now have another important adult in their life.
→ This is where blending starts, but most people don’t call it “blended” yet.
Serious Relationship + Regular Contact
The partner is around often — dinners, school events, weekends.
The kids are adjusting to someone new being part of everyday life.
→ Some people start using the term “blended family” here, because the two worlds
are mixing.
Living Together / Marriage
Everyone shares a home, routines, rules, and daily life.
Step-parents and step-siblings are now full-time family members.
→ This is the stage where almost everyone would say: Yes, this is a blended
family now.
Long-Term Blending
Over time, the family builds new traditions, roles, and identity.
It’s no longer “his kids” or “her kids,” but our family.
Before You Blend™ is built for parents in Stages 1 and 2. This is your chance to slow down, protect your kids, and get it right the first time.
Why Families Break at This Stage
Studies show that two out of three blended families end in separation within the first 5 years.
Here’s why:
Parents rushed the kids into introductions or moving in
Hard conversations were avoided — money, discipline, exes, boundaries
Red flags were ignored, like:
A partner resenting or competing with your kids
Love bombing and pushing for commitment too fast
Dismissing your child’s feelings or bond with their other parent
Outside pressure from kids, exes or family made the timeline feel urgent
The Result?
Couples burn out. Kids lose another stable home. And what could’ve been a strong family becomes stress, distance, and heartbreak.
Imagine if…
You knew exactly when the time was right to blend (and when it wasn’t).
You had scripts to handle money talks, discipline, rules, and exes without blowing up.
You could spot the difference between a partner who’s truly ready and one who’s just playing house.
You had a safe, thoughtful plan for introducing kids, setting boundaries with exes, and protecting your child’s heart.
That’s the peace of mind Before You Blend™ gives you.
What’s Inside
Before You Blend™
7 clear, practical modules that walk you through the
decisions that matter most:
Why Love Isn’t Enough
The four areas that must align before you blend: parenting, lifestyle, emotional load, outside pressure.
The Conversations That Matter
How to talk about discipline, exes and money — with scripts to guide you.
Pressure vs Peace
Spot whether you’re moving forward for the right reasons, or just because you feel pressured.
Red Light or Green Light
The behaviours that warn you to stop, and the signs that say it’s safe to move forward.
Introductions, Exes & Landmines
When and how to introduce kids, what to say to your ex, and how to set boundaries.
The Impact on Kids
How blending feels for them — loyalty binds, sibling rivalry, hidden grief — and tools to protect their hearts.
Making the Call
A simple three-path map: Blend now, wait, or walk away. With exact words to share your decision.
Bonus When You Join:
The Pre-Blend Checklist™
A one-page gut check you can use anytime.
10 yes/no questions that reveal if you and your partner are truly ready
Quick snapshot you can stick on the fridge or pull out when doubts hit
Built to give you instant clarity before you even dive into the full course
Value: $27
Yours free when you join today!
What You’ll Walk Away With
Clarity on whether blending now is the right time
Confidence to have the hard conversations without fights
Scripts and checklists to use straight away
A step-by-step plan for introductions and boundaries
The power to protect your kids and your relationship from becoming another statistic.
Most people finish it in a weekend. You’ll have lifetime access to come back anytime.
Why Listen To Us?
We’re not just teaching theory, we’re living it, right alongside you. We’ve been a blended family for 5+ years, raising 5 kids across 3 households.
Along the way, we’ve built healthy co-parenting relationships with our exes and navigated the same pressures, doubts, and tough conversations you’re facing right now.
Before this, we were police officers. We've seen families and relationships at their very best and their absolute worst. That experience gave us a front-row seat to what keeps families together… and what tears them apart.
Why Listen To Us?
We’re not just teaching theory, we’re living it, right alongside you. We’ve been a blended family for 5+ years, raising 5 kids across 3 households.
Along the way, we’ve built healthy co-parenting relationships with our exes and navigated the same pressures, doubts, and tough conversations you’re facing right now.
Before this, we were police officers. We've seen families and relationships at their very best and their absolute worst. That experience gave us a front-row seat to what keeps families together… and what tears them apart.
Before You Blend™ is the process we wish we had:
Clear, practical, and built from both lived experience and frontline perspective.
Your Investment
This framework used to be part of a $1997 coaching program.
Right now, it’s yours for just
$49
This Is Not For You If
You think “love will fix everything”
You’re ignoring the red flags and charging ahead anyway
You’re ready to move in tomorrow with zero plan
You’d rather gamble with your kids’ wellbeing than prepare properly
Ready to Do This Right?
Every blended family begins with one decision.
Get it wrong → broken trust, constant fights, kids paying the price.
Get it right → a strong, safe, lasting family.
There are no do-overs.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this course only for couples?
No. Before You Blend™ works for individuals and couples. If you’re dating someone with kids (or you have kids yourself), this course gives you clarity whether you’re exploring solo or together.
What if my partner won’t take the course with me?
That’s fine. You’ll still get the clarity you need. Many students go through the process alone first, then use the tools and scripts to open the conversation with their partner.
How long will it take to complete?
The course is designed to be practical and fast. Most people finish it in a weekend, but you can go at your own pace. You’ll have lifetime access, so there’s no rush.
What if we’ve already blended families — is this still useful?
Yes. While it’s designed to help you decide before you blend, many couples use the tools (scripts, checklists, frameworks) to strengthen alignment even after combining households.
Do we need to be in crisis for this to work?
Not at all. Before You Blend™ is about prevention and clarity. It’s for anyone who wants to move forward (or pause) with eyes wide open, instead of guessing and hoping for the best.
Is there any live coaching included?
No. This is a self-paced course, designed so you can work through it privately, with everything you need for clarity already inside.
What makes this different from just talking it out with my partner?
Conversations without a framework often go in circles. This course gives you proven tools, scripts, and a decision map so you’re not just talking, you’re moving toward a clear answer you both trust.
Ready to Do This Right?
Every blended family begins with one decision.
Get it wrong → broken trust, constant fights, kids paying the price.
Get it right → a strong, safe, lasting family.
There are no do-overs.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this course only for couples?
No. Before You Blend™ works for individuals and couples. If you’re dating someone with kids (or you have kids yourself), this course gives you clarity whether you’re exploring solo or together.
What if my partner won’t take the course with me?
That’s fine. You’ll still get the clarity you need. Many students go through the process alone first, then use the tools and scripts to open the conversation with their partner.
How long will it take to complete?
The course is designed to be practical and fast. Most people finish it in a weekend, but you can go at your own pace. You’ll have lifetime access, so there’s no rush.
What if we’ve already blended families — is this still useful?
Yes. While it’s designed to help you decide before you blend, many couples use the tools (scripts, checklists, frameworks) to strengthen alignment even after combining households.
Do we need to be in crisis for this to work?
Not at all. Before You Blend™ is about prevention and clarity. It’s for anyone who wants to move forward (or pause) with eyes wide open, instead of guessing and hoping for the best
Is there any live coaching included?
No. This is a self-paced course, designed so you can work through it privately, with everything you need for clarity already inside.
What makes this different from just talking it out with my partner?
Conversations without a framework often go in circles. This course gives you proven tools, scripts, and a decision map so you’re not just talking, you’re moving toward a clear answer you both trust.
